“It is hard to understand a traumatic experience unless you go through it.”
So said Grace Calvelo-Rustia of the Catholic Community of Christ Our Light, Cherry Hill, as she explained how in the matter of one day, her whole life changed.
Having gathered her family together for the Paschal Triduum, she awoke Good Friday to a panicked scream. Calvelo-Rustia, who is of Filipino descent, jumped from her bed and rushed out the front door. There stood her daughter, home from college, next to her SUV, which was graffitied with obscene and anti-Asian images.
“For 35 years, three generations have lived beautiful and peaceful lives in our house,” she said. “I was shocked. I was confused. I was angry. I had felt safe in our house for years, and now this was happening? I couldn’t help but think and question – did this incident happen because they are giving us a warning sign? Will they come back? If they do come back, will they hurt us?”
She continued, “In one day, feeling safe and thinking that I belonged in the fabric of our neighborhood became a huge doubt. … In one waking morning, we had been identified not as a neighbor, not as a member of a community, but rather as Asians and a target of Asian hate.”
Calvelo-Rustia was one of four speakers to give witness testimony during the Multi-Cultural Concert for Peace and Racial Harmony held May 22 in Saint Charles Borromeo Church, Sicklerville. More than 100 faithful from around the Diocese gathered for the bilingual event, which was sponsored by the diocesan Racial Justice Commission, in coordination with the Secretariat for Evangelization and Hispanic Ministries.
After each talk, choirs from throughout the Diocese representing different cultures performed. Among them were the Philippine Community of Southern NJ; ICA/African Mass choirs; musicians from Lindenwold’s Our Lady of Guadalupe Parish Shrine; and the Gospel choir of Saint Bartholomew Church, Sacred Heart Parish, Camden. All joined in singing “Kapayapaan” (Peace Be with You) by Maria Nieva, pianist, conductor and children’s choir director in Our Lady of Guadalupe Parish Shrine.
There were talks by Jude Ukam of Sacred Heart Parish, Camden, who spoke on being a Nigerian in America, and Msgr. Leonard Scott, who discussed the differences he has seen regarding vocations and the Black community over his 50 years-plus as a priest.
Laura Herrera-Mateo, a young adult from Sacred Heart Parish, spoke of coming to America at age 9, where “being the new kid in the classroom can cause anxiety, let alone not knowing the language.”
“It can be as simple as not knowing your name anymore,” she said, explaining that the Spanish pronunciation she was used to hearing was replaced with an English version of her name.
Such confusion continued when, at the end of 11th grade, she noticed her peers preparing letters for scholarships with the guidance of school counselors. Having been left out, Herrera-Mateo met with her counselor, who explained that because of her immigrant status, nobody had wanted to give her “false hope.”
“I insisted whether there were forms I could fill out or letters I could write for scholarship benefits,” Herrera-Mateo said.
She went on to community college. Two years later, as she watched fellow students prepare letters of intent to prestigious universities, she determined she would not let “anything stop me from learning or gaining knowledge. I knew deep inside that God had a plan for me.”
In her fourth semester, Herrera-Mateo became a recipient of DACA, Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals, which gives children of undocumented immigrants protection from deportation. She went on to study nursing and education and is currently teaching Spanish and English.
“To all the kids, to all the youth, to all the young adults and to all the adults: Do not let anything stop you. Dreams come true. And everything with the help of God.”
Father Vincent Guest, pastor of Sacred Heart Parish and coordinator of the Black Catholic Ministry Commission and the diocesan Racial Justice Commission, acknowledged how both of the U.S. bishop’s pastoral letters on racial justice – “Brothers and Sisters to Us” (1979) and “Open Wide Our Hearts” (2018) – are critical resources to fight discrimination. He stressed the importance of Catholic social teaching on racial justice and referenced the May 14 supermarket shooting in Buffalo, N.Y., in which 10 Black people were killed.
“The message I think we need to leave with today is that racism is not just politically incorrect or socially unacceptable, but at it’s heart, racism is a sin,” he said.
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